There are ways to get even with a player, and one of them is to show him your self-respect. Many players count on their victims losing their self-confidence, so it’s important to maintain your self-respect despite his actions. You can do this by avoiding any discussions with him about your ex or ignoring him for a while.
Let him see you hanging out with other guys
If your boyfriend is a player, you can get even by hanging out with other guys and letting him know that you have other interests. It is important to show him that you enjoy yourself with your friends and don’t need a player to enjoy yourself.
Avoid talking about your ex
Whenever you meet your ex, don’t talk about your ex or anything about your ex. This will only cause your new relationship to fail, because men don’t want to repeat the bad behavior they saw in the past. Instead, start out with a clean slate and focus on your new partner.
Try to keep your conversation with your ex light and natural. Talk about your experiences and accomplishments, and leave your ex’s faults out of the conversation. If you have any feelings for your ex, refer to them by their name, rather than their alias. Doing this will create distance between you and your ex, and will encourage you to talk about them as real people, rather than a fictional character.
It’s tempting to talk about your ex in an effort to get even, but this looks desperate and ineffective. Don’t use a broken heart as an excuse to get revenge on a player. Acting desperate is likely to make your ex feel guilty. Instead, use the broken heart as an opportunity to heal yourself.
If you feel the need to talk about your ex, consider talking about a special memory you have with them. Remember, this doesn’t have to be related to your relationship. Instead, talk about something you both love. This will keep the conversation light, and won’t start a big drama. If possible, discuss something else you both share, such as your favorite sport.
Don’t expect too much from a player
If you’re dating a player, it’s important to communicate your expectations to them. Players thrive when they have multiple people vying for their attention. They are good at juggling a bunch of people at once without anyone knowing they’re involved. This is exactly what will make a jealous woman jealous.
First of all, don’t expect too much from a player. You can still get together and go out for a date with a player, but don’t expect him to spend all day with you. He’ll also never meet your mother or pick you up sick. It’s important to know his good and bad traits before you date him.
You also don’t want to drag a player down by falling in love with him. A player isn’t looking for someone who will drag them down or ruin their life. Keep things light and fun for them. Don’t try to marry them unless you are ready for that.
Ignore him at first
If you’re ignoring a player, he’ll realize that you’re not interested in him. When men feel ignored, they feel powerless and start to wonder why they can’t have someone else. This makes them try harder to get you back. Men don’t give up easily. They try harder when they know that they can’t take you for granted.
Ignoring a player at first is an extremely impolite move. Trying to talk to a guy who doesn’t respond is very frustrating. But if you ignore him without a good reason, he’ll develop a negative opinion of you. You should give a compelling reason for why you’re ignoring him and never ignore him too long. Otherwise, he’ll just hate you and stop trying to talk to you.
Men love the thrill of the chase. They enjoy the action, the suspense, and the thrill. By ignoring him, you’re feeding into his hunting instinct, making him feel that he can’t get you and therefore more interested in you. This way, you’ll be able to seduce him.
Another strategy to ignore a player is to be busy with something you enjoy. This will make him want to see you more, which will help you avoid unwanted attention.
Don’t talk about your hopes and fears
One of the biggest mistakes you can make is letting your player know about your insecurities or upsets. A player expects to be worshipped by everyone, and if he doesn’t get what he wants, he will start to wonder why the magic didn’t work. Instead, look uninterested or rude, and don’t call him names.
Don’t spend too much time with a player
If your relationship with a player isn’t working, try to avoid spending too much time with them. Don’t reply to texts right away and don’t spend time stalking their social media accounts. If you do spend time with them, try to let them know that you are not into them, but don’t go overboard. Also, don’t spend too much time with them when they’re out with other people.
If a player is jealous of a girl, try to make yourself stand out from the other girls. You’ll stand out because your jealousy will make you different than the other girls. You can do this by not answering the phone when he calls or looking bored when you’re talking to him. You can also be extra nice to other people that he knows.
Dating a player is not a serious relationship. It’s a way to pass the time during the winter or summer. Keep your own interests and hobbies in mind. Don’t let the player control your life. Don’t let your relationship turn into a game where your time is a waste.